We had a bad fight but good talk about on Tuesday, didn’t sleep till 3am and him 4am. Actually, I didn’t want to ‘fight’ about it, it’s when he asked if I ok to let his colleague used my points to booked for a room in First World, Genting. I did felt that he didn’t asked for my opinion when he just tell me via sms earlier in the day that his colleague will be joining us to Genting and asked if he could use my points to secure for a room, but it didn’t occur to me that he did not even bother to ask me if he can come along. I started to blow up when he asked if I’m ok to let his colleague used my points after he had used it to book the room.
I asked if it’s too late to ask me after he had used them. And in the first place he should check if I’m even comfortable to ask his colleague to come along together with us and also his friends. He should at least ask for my opinion since we are both going together. This is a form of disrespect for the other party, similar to the case when he holds my hand while staring hard at other women. This is definitely a no no in a relationship isn’t it?
Then I brought up the fact that he did not take note of my likes and dislikes especially when I’m angry with him, what are the things that appease me easily and what are the things that I will fumed up even more when he says or does. As he will just say the wrong thing or did not say the right thing which kept us hanging. We will just remain silence for a long while and I’m still angry or angrier. This shows how much I mean to him and the importance in his heart. There are many times/ chances where we had quarrel and he is not able to do or say something quickly to appease me, hence I felt he did not bother to take note of me.
Things that he does when I’m angry, which is a no no:
Kept quiet
Apologize in an insincere or unapologetic manner (eg. Dun get angry leh. Sorry lo, I know it’s my fault, but dun get so angry la.)
Tickle me
Huh (eg. Expect me to say something.)
Talk about other irrelevant stuff or things to divert my attention (eg. Change topic.)
He keeps saying the things he promised me, he will definitely do it, but the fact is that there are some which he did not do. He said there are improvements and he’s trying. And I told him that saying that he dotes on me all the time does not mean anything if his actions don’t shows. He cried when he said he doesn’t know he has so many weaknesses. I told him this is not really weakness but shows more on how important I am to him. After the long 4 hours call, I decided that’s enough, I tired and decided to relent. He promised (again) he will change.
He came to pick me up the next day from my office with donuts which he queued for 15 minutes. I told him only when I’m angry then I will have such privileges huh? He said he will come and fetch me everyday if I want, just pay for the ERP charges only lo. But well, maybe I wouldn’t, it’s just so expensive to work in CBD area.
My day said that they felt earthquake in the evening. He thought his eyes are playing tricks on him and my bed said the bed is shaking. I was in the movie then, around 7plus but I didn’t feel anything.
My colleague felt a slight shake again on Thursday morning, I said I did not feel anything at all, think my skin are quite thick. My director then came up to us all and announced that the senior management have decided to closed the office for the rest of the afternoon. So I ended work at 12noon yesterday. Whoaa...
I went shopping happily but sadly alone, spent more than $200 within 2 hours in Wisma and walk around for the rest of the 4 hours while waiting for him. We walked around Orchard into the expensive shops, Tiffany and Co, he wanted to get a necklace for me, but I think it’s too expensive and the designs are not really nice or fantastic. I believe for the price that we are paying, we can get some diamond necklace at those jewellery shops with better designs and cheaper as well. After 7pm, we went to City Chain at Marina Square and got the Solvil Titus couple watches which we have been looking around for a nice one for quite some time. I offered to pay for half the price but he declined. Hehe, free gift... ;-)
Anyway, today is his dad’s birthday so we are having dinner together with some of his relatives as well. I didn’t get anything, not sure what to get, but I will get a cake for him. Hopefully, all turns out well.
I asked him to go for my brother’s birthday lunch with my family next Saturday as so far, he had not join my family for meals before and hardly even comes to my place. Hence this might be a good time to see each other, know of the existence. I asked my sister to check with my day if he can comes along, my dad agrees and asked my sister if he is those stable kind. Hehe.. Since he didn't have much encounter with him, didn't know how he is. I have told him to fetch us all there to the restaurant.
He had a drinking session with his colleague next Friday, I have asked if I could go to Plasma while he’s out. Hmmm, seems like he’s not willing to let me go, he might just asked me to go with his colleagues. We shall see.
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