Tit's Wedding

Oh no, has been eating lunches and dinners these weeks… Not sure whether I’ll fit in my white dress this Saturday for Tit’s wedding. I tried going to the gym these 2 weeks, hopefully it works. Haha… Haven’t gotten a dress for dinner though, Shanghai theme, don’t think I would want to wear cheongsam, so unlike me. I may just wear my existing one if I really can’t find one that I like. Anyway I do have a few dresses that I have not worn before.

Although I have been an ‘Ah Yi’ for quite a number of times, but this is the first time helping out for close friends. Tit is my poly closest mate, she’s loud in class, kind, helpful, a little blur at times, blunt at times and she’s like the class’ newspaper… haha… we find out the class happenings (e.g. who’s getting attached to who, who’s getting married, who change her/his boyfriend/girlfriend? Etc.) and updates from her basically, especially now that we are all busy with our own life, work and family. She plans for most of our poly gathering (H04) but guess she do not have much time to do all these now, since she’s studying now and also she’s getting married!! May need to do some household chores and accompany her family now.. hehe… Wonder when will the young one be ready???

She’s really busy these few months, preparation for the wedding, the dinner, photos, programme for the night, etc. I will be helping out with the co-ordination during the dinner, so don’t think I can really enjoy the wonderful food. Luckily Dear is not going, otherwise he may be bored to death, furthermore he don’t know my friends at all, may be awkward for him… Opps, sorry, cannot accompany him on Saturday… Feel bad sometimes that I can’t accompany him on one of the days, especially Friday. And he still has to wait for me till late to fetch me home. Been planning to quit Plasma soon, hopefully will be able to speak to her about this soon, will be hard… ;-(

I really treasured what I have now, glad that i found him!! So far, he has been very good to me, waiting for me after work, regardless it’s 7pm, 8pm, 9pm or 3am… so touched by his actions. He just asked me today to open a joint account when we start the topic on internet banking. Hmmm, thought usually it’s the girl that will initiate this, so that both can save for the future or for wedding… OMG…. Haha… don’t think so lah, we just started, and it’s really a bit too early… as I’m the more passive kind, will only do certain things when you tell me or prompt me to, otherwise I’m more laid back on all these, especially after Dan and a year of single lifestyle, I’m very much on my own, being independent. Hence I find it very encouraging and great that he’s so pro-active, take initiatives on such issues, surprising for man who will do this.

I’m afraid at the same time that I will learn to dependent on him as time goes by and if one day… (touchwood), then I will have to stand on my own feet again and learn to be independent. He tries to meet me whenever he can, as long as there are no classes. Or unless I have very late calls or something on, so we are practically meeting on most days. Since he is so willing to meet me, how do I have the heart to say no to him… Of course I really love to see him, but I’m just afraid of being too dependent on him.

Got a stress session again on Saturday when we Funan after my session with the Sinsei. I thought he was going to rubbed my ankle real hard and I was preparing to scream or bit someone.. haha.. But no, he said that he don’t ‘tui’, he only adjust the bone structure back to position. He said once we trip or fall, the bone will be out of alignment, and when people stands too long or wear heels for a long time, the weight may exert pressure on the positioning of the bone and over time, it will affect the rest of the bone (hip, shoulder etc..). he pull my legs, cracked my knee, hip, back, shoulder and neck altogether. Woa, it’s shiok… I feel lighter, although I can’t that he has pulled my legs. He said that’s the reason for my stiff neck too, sitting in front of the computer too much and stress. So I guess may need to go back for some cracking up session once in a while, maybe every 3 months.

As I was saying, the stressful session of meeting up with his parents and Grandma… he left me sitting at the store to watch TV with his Grandma and she started chatting with me. She seems friendlier than his mum. His mum is a little quiet, and I do not know what to talk about, didn’t really know her interest, so can’t really say much. And I’m afraid of his mum stare (not really that kind of stare but the look seems fierce). Then his Grandma told me that he is very filial to her, asked what dishes do I know how to cook etc.. like an interview session for match-making… OMG… We went for dinner together at the Hong Kong Street Restaurant, Cantonese style, not sure whether they are trying to see whether I can fit to their eating habits… instead of me getting food for his Grandma, his Grandma is taking food onto my plate… So pai sei… Still not very comfortable with his parents and family yet… got to build up the rapport again…

We went to watch “Next” yesterday with his friends, although this is not the first time that I am going out with him and his friends, but this is the first time after we are together that we are going out together as a couple. So his friends were like making fun, teasing us etc… They wanted to go Zouk on Wednesday, he sounds kind of interested then he said out loud, “no, cannot go already.” His friends were like laughing at him, oh yah or somebody now cannot go liao. But I didn’t say anything, I just keep quiet… I said to him in the car that if he wants, he can still go. Anyway I have dinner appointment that night, but he still says no. I didn’t want to restrict him, if he wants to go, don’t want him to turn out like Dan.