Weekend Getaways

Been planning for weekend getaway. Going to Desaru in July, wanted to have it in June but unfortunately it’s a school holidays, the dates we wanted has been fully booked. Since Clara wanted to get away for weekend as well, so I decided to ask her along… I guess for beach resort, it will be the more the merrier…

We have all wanted to go Redang for the longest time, and Clara took the liberty to find out on the packages as she has been talking about going for so long. So Dear and I decided to go also.. Not sure whether he will be happy to go with them, but I know he will be awkward as he don’t know them. Will accompany him so that he won’t feel too bored, am just afraid that he don’t like sea sports and ended up not doing anything… hence thought if Clara and Teng are going, at least there will be company for those sports activities.

Mon – we kind of quarreled because he mentioned yet again that the price to Rendang, we can take plane go Taiwan already. So I said ok lor, you go your Taiwan see Taimei then I go Rendang myself… He said Ok, then afterwards said no lah he would want to go with me. I told him seriously, if he didn’t want to go, I can go on my own but he keep insisting that he wanted to go also. Then I shoot him back, asking him then why does he always raise the price issue that is comparable to fly by air. But I keep telling him it’s for the experience…

After this topic I’m quite sick of the whole trip already, and a little pissed off with him. He started to change topic, I still answered him but in a not-so-in-the-mood tone. He said he can wait for me after my call (had late calls, 3 in total till 9 plus 10pm), but I told him not to wait, it’s too late.

Tue – called him as usual for his morning call, put down without speaking much. He sent a lovely email about love, which outlines that only time can understand how great love is… very sweet email, but I can’t be bothered to reply, which I normally would drop him a line or two. He called me after lunch (our usual routine nowadays) and we have a short chat. He said he will wait for me at night, I still insist no as it’s quite late. He then said “no matter how late, I will still wait for you, just like what I had told you before”.

I briefly recalled he did mention this before, but I did not expect him to emphasize that again. I think he is trying to make amendments of what he said yesterday, even though he did not apologize or anything. Not that I want him to apologize since he is not at fault, but I find he may be someone who will not apologize if he’s at fault. But this is not a good example to take to generalize that he won’t apologize since he’s not at fault, the only thing is that he keeps mentioning about the price as compared to the air fare which pisses me off.

Anyway, after he said that, my heart melted again. I think I have forgiven him. I said that I will always remember this, so he will have to always wait for me no matter how late. I’m really touched!

Wed – he sent me to Charcoal restaurant at Tresaury building, next to Funan (operated by Shatec student) after work, just to send me there, and intend to pick me up after my dinner with Eve, Juliet, Ween and Clara. He does not have any plans so he just hang around Bugis. Luckily he met his friends, so join them for lunch. I still think he is trying to make amendments on Monday issue.

The food was not bad, quite nice, really makes me think of the time when we invent food in Saffron kitchen (During my Temasek training). Those times were so fun, the cooking and eating… the creamy soup, the sauces and garnishes.. etc…

Anyway, Eve and Juliet were so interested who was the guy waiting for me and whether the guy was dating me… haha… I can see them keep peeping into the car’s window…

Thur – I went medicure and pedicure with Tit and Mel in preparation for the wedding, left for highlight at Cut & Curl at Jubilee shortly as they closes early yesterday at 5pm. Since dear is not ready yet, I went to my Godmum’s place to accompany her for a while. She asked whether the one fetching me is my boyfriend and I said yes. I think she’s also consoled that finally I have gotten over Dan and get on with a new guy. Will bring him along for lunches or dinner the next time.

We went to ROM to park the car there, walked over to Funan (stressful time again) and we settled down at Raffles City food court for dinner. We went over to Esplanade, had a slow walk (our usual walk after dinner, but always the same few places… haha.. boring..) we settled down at a spot and he started asking whether I remember when and where we get together and said that tomorrow, which is today, is our 1 month anniversary. I said I know. But unfortunately we are unable to stay out late as I need to wake up very early tomorrow (Tit’s wedding). He suggested that we stayed at Rasa Sentosa next month (since we are not able to do so this month) and we can go to the beach and stay overnight there. So sweet of him to think of all these…

He started to think of what is the first movie that we watched together after seeing the questions that I am going to ask the groom on Saturday. Haha… as if he is getting married… Opps…

Fri - Not sure whether I will need to prepare any gift for him… not sure whether he is preparing anything… hopefully he did not because I did not prepare anything as well..

Our plan was to just have dinner and a movie – Shrek 3. We are both leaving early to maximize our time together… Hopefully this honeymoon period will not only last for a month or a short time…

I really look forward to spending many more 1 months with him, know him better and hopefully I can also (or he can train to) control/ maintain my temper now. He has been great!