1st Quarrel

Mon – I was supposed to meet Wei Wei for dinner but she said she need to accompany her bf as he just went to remove his wisdom tooth, so need to buy him dinner. Hence we postpone to Wed instead.

Then I arranged to meet Dear at Cityhall to buy the donut that is always in long queue. He is supposed to be on half day, to view cars and will return to Funan by evening. I reached there slightly later than arranged but he didn’t have to wait for me since he will walk down only after I sms him. Just as we wanted to queue behind, the staff told us that the queue has stopped, even if I continue to queue, I might or might not get the donut afterwards. So we decided not to and walk to one side to decide what to do next.

He asked me to eat and he will accompany me cos he’s going back to Funan after that and eat with his parents. I did mention to him beforehand that I do not want to go Funan, basically because I don’t want his parents to think that we accompany them for dinner for the sake of convenience, so that he can drive me home. It’s ok for him cos he’s the son, but they may think otherwise for me, but unfortunately, he does not understand.

So when he said that, I was shock and pissed. I asked “so you are asking me here just to queue for the donut and go home?” He said no, will accompany me to eat, but the thing is, you have decided that after buying the donut, accompany me for a short dinner, you are going to go to Funan, drive back together with your parents. Even though I told him that I can ride home myself, this is not what I have expected or he should at least tell me that he intended to do all these.

I feel that I have dropped my work, just to meet you, and now you are telling me that go eat myself and go home straight after myself as well. I’m so angry, find that if that’s the case I rather he doesn’t meet me at all.

He tried to ‘hong’ me and he still have the cheek to say don’t be angry over such small matters. I said that this is no small matter, so how will you react if I do the same to you? After some persuasion, I relent and we went for dinner. When we walked around, he can still say or make fun of the words I mentioned when I told him off and I think these pisses me further. The first time he mentioned, I told him joking, don’t copy my words and learn those bad things, the second time he said something again, I mentioned ok, keep following my words in a not-so-happy manner. He just brushed it off by saying ok la and look away to change the subject. All the more I’m agitated, so I turned quiet, said going home when asked what’s next. Upon reaching the Mrt, I told him I’ll go home myself and he can take the train here, he resisted and said he will walked to collect my bike. He seems to know that I’m angry but choose to act blur about it. I gave a one-word answer when he asked things and looked away whenever he looks at me. Finally, he asked whether I was angry with him after 30 mins, and I kept quiet which should be very obvious by now. He asked what am I angry about, I said I mentioned this earlier and you ignored. I will only mention one time. So again he promised this will not happened again and ‘hong’ me and persuaded me not to ride home.

When we chatted later at night, he pisses me off yet again by repeating my angry lines again. I was pissed, guess he knew but he brush off and we put down the phone. I was sad cos I hate it when people brush off and hang up to hope that tomorrow I will forget about it.

Tue – I did not chat much or happily or forward email to him as I’m still sore over last night. He, as usual, pretends or assumes everything is alright. It’s until in the evening that I relent when he said he’s having a headache.

Wed – Wei wei put me aeroplane again, so he decided to meet me after much deliberation. I purposely do not want to ask whether he wanted to meet me up as I do not want any unhappiness to happen again especially if we are meeting up often.

He said my angry line again and I warned him “can you don’t do that again?” he knew I’m getting angry if he’s going to start again. This is not the first time today that he do that, just that I do not want to say anything. So I will need to send verbal warning before the volcano explodes. So he understands and he stops.

If he is ever going to do that again, I am going to give him the final warning and asked how many times I need to tell him and this will be really the final warning before I walk away and I’m serious!